I have gotten the scourge known as "kids are back in school and bringing home new and nasty germs". That means that aside from feeling totally crappy, I also have some extra time to be on the computer. Lucky you.
Since my head is pretty fuzzy this morning, I apologize in advance for my disconnected rambling. I will try not to be too confusing.
It was an emotional week with me having to put in my notice at work and quitting the transport team. I go back and forth between being sad, angry, and scared and excited to be moving on to learning something more. My next step is to talk to the people at U of M. I'm waiting on their call now. As long as I don't say anything stupid, I should be ok. Cross your fingers.
I think the big problem for me right now is all the waiting. I just want to get on with everything so that we can get out of limbo and move forward with our lives. I see it affecting how we are with each other and I definitely don't like that. We are both ultra-sensitive and snappy, though I doubt that T would actually admit that. As a matter of fact, he is of the mindset that I am never happy and always negative. It upsets me when he says things like that and then, of course, my upset validates his opinion. It's a no win situation for me. After yesterday's skirmish ("why can't you ever be positive??), I decided to just keep how I feel to myself from now on. I am just tired of feeling like I need to defend myself. I will either been seen and accepted for who I am or I won't be. I can't let that rule my life anymore. Hopefully, we will come out the other side of this together but a lot of the time I don't take that for granted anymore and that makes me sad.
I don't know if I'm a bit down today because I feel cruddy or what but I should probably just stop now and take a nap. Maybe that will improve my outlook on life.
Peace ☮
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